| 1. | You’re feeling ‘cheesed off’ because there are so many things you would like to do but there’s no-one to do them with. |
| 2. | You join Nexus and receive all the literature and your membership card. |
| 3. | You read the bulletin and decide to turn up at a social event. |
| 4. | You go along fully aware that to make friends you have to be one and that takes time and a bit of effort. |
| 5. | You don’t give up because you were not the belle of the ball – not everyone has been sitting there awaiting your arrival. |
| 6. | You decide on another event and call more people. |
| 7. | You suddenly realise that you are becoming part of a group because you now recognise some faces and they recognise you. |
| 8. | You end up finding that there are no longer enough days in the week and you are looking out for new members to welcome in because you haven’t forgotten what it felt like being the new kid on the block. |
| 9. | A new life has begun and you have yourself to thank - we, Nexus, merely provided the tools, you are the one who used them! |