All the information sent to you monthly - and, most importantly, opportunity!! (If you are prepared to grasp it)

Refunds are given discriminately if you have a very good reason. To just say you don't like it after one encounter would not apply - as people normally only really enjoy themselves with friends and you would not have given yourself a chance to make any. You could join Nexus, dislike every member - but you still don't know who is joining tomorrow - that person could become the most important thing in your life. You have to give the members and, most importantly, yourself a chance.

Those from all walks of life - look out of your window and you'll probably see Nexus members. People within the organisation very soon find those on their wavelength and even enjoy the experience of meeting those who are not.

The 'bulk' of the membership are aged 40+. We do accept people who are younger but expect them to understand that this isn't a disco dolly bird scene — but an organisation that promotes communication between single people of all ages and both sexes. The intelligent use Nexus for what it is - for instance if you appreciate classical music it doesn't really matter whether your companion is 21 or 80, as long as he/she likes the music (besides you may meet the gorgeous grandson/daughter).

There are, apart from all the other events, regular weekly meeting in Hotels and Pubs throughout the country - they are listed in the Bulletin that you receive monthly. This also lists the first names and telephone numbers of members prepared to welcome you into Nexus and meet you at a regular event. In truth - the answer to this question is "look around you" because the nearest meeting place could be in your home if you volunteer to host a coffee evening - or, if you prefer, the restaurant just down the road if you care to advertise in the Bulletin that you fancy having a meal there and who wants to join you?

The same as it does in everyday life! If a group goes for a meal, we all pay our share of the bill. On a visit to the theatre you pay for your ticket (sometimes cheaper than the public because you have a group booking) and when you go to a party it usually costs you a bottle of whatever you drink and a plate of food.

Members do car share - but it will be necessary to attend a couple of events first so that you can get to know some people - then you are likely to find those who are prepared to take you along with them.

Call before you join and we'll tell you, honestly, whether you live in a very busy or very quiet part of the country.

YES. Simply telephone either a Link Member or Welcomer in your area and they will do their best to help you join in the activities.

Although the majority of events are organised for our adult members only; you will find that there are a number where children are welcome. Of course you could also get involved by arranging something yourself

The tapes are a means of getting in touch with people whose paths wouldn't normally always cross yours. If you listen to their recording and like what they say, you have the opportunity to telephone a Nexus office and, after verifying yourself as a member, be given that persons telephone number. You can also, from your own sitting room, make your tape and find out who, from far and near, likes what you say - or, more importantly, how you say it!

The Social Activities are as diverse as the membership because it is the members who suggest and organise them. Once you are a member you are welcome to suggest any activity you like. Each month you will receive the Bulletin. This contains a wealth of information including a list of activities throughout the Country and details of who to contact if you would like to go along to them.

NOT WITHOUT YOUR PERMISSION. Once again Security is paramount. Most members are more than happy to have their details circulated but some prefer to only give them to individuals themselves... the choice is yours.

NO. There are a number of reasons why this is not allowed and top of the list is Security. Our members want to be safe in the knowledge that the people they meet through NEXUS are legitimate. If non-members were allowed to stroll in 'off the street' this security would be lost. Sorry, but our members come first.